I am thankful that GOD has his way of working on our behalf. It amazes me to see him at work;the people he places in our life at just the right moment... HIS time....we might feel we need something done sooner....not realizing GOD is an on time GOD. While we're busy trying to figure it out he already has it worked out.
Trusting in him,keeping him 1st in your life & through prayer HE will make your wildest dreams become reality. No man will do for you nor love you the way GOD loves and supplies your every need. Yes your husband,boyfriend or companion may love you,support and supply for you and your household,but GOD loves you beyond,unconditional & in spite of your shortcomings,flaws and when you feel like things are to heavy to bare. Always know you can look up or kneel down and have a talk with GOD he's available and listening in your darkest hour of need.
People are lost in this world,because they tend to live on their own beliefs. Either they don't know or never tried to do it GOD'S way......Some may not have been fortunate enough to be raised in a church setting. Why do you think reality shows have such high ratings and Sunday morning church attendance is so low. Their reality or concept of life is based on reality TV...most females even live to meet the standards of the people they watch weekly on TV. They want to party like them, drive the same cars they see them in and walk in those same red bottom shoes. Not realizing these "actresses" are lost themselves and seeking & searching for their identity. People who know their worth won't air out their dirty laundry in front of millions for the live of money and fame.
Dedan Tolbert (a relationship counselor & talk show host from Philadelphia,PA) wrote,"the entertainment industry is literally filled with "celebrities" who have cast aside their morals,values, and overall relationship with GOD and literally and figuratively sold their souls for fame and fortune". And majority of the audience is African American woman whom idolize them and the reason being he explained is,"every character is the exact opposite of what a great men look for in a wife....i have to totally agree & most woman can relate to a character because they have been through or more than likely currently in a situation that they can relate to 1 or more characters on these shows"!
Sadly enough for some odd reason females believe that love is suppose to hurt. Most have never been in a relationship with a REAL man to know how they're suppose to be treated as a woman. So if he's not out to the late hours of the night,slapping her around and taking from her when he is suppose to be adding to her life....she don't want him. It's true all of the "good guys" finish last & get hurt because these females are use to the "thugs" w/ swag....ladies we gotta wake up and get a MAN w/ class...realize that we deserve nothing but the best. Yes, I want a man who will still open the car door for me, wipe the tears when I feel like crying (instead of producing the tears that make me cry),and most importantly I want a man of GOD. He don't have to be a deacon,elder,nor Bishop....but he MUST know and love GOD. A man that knows and loves GOD respect himself as a man and will be a provider...not saying all men in the church are perfect,but that's more than a perfect start for me and my family. When a man is willing and able to do whatever it takes to keep a smile on your face that's when you consider on settling until than consider yourself single.
The reality of it all is you can not and will not make it without GOD in your life. Yes you see them on TV making millions of dollars and they seem to be living a perfect life,but when those cameras are off they have more problems than your everyday around the way girl......reason being they're in front of millions fighting and arguing over their man,the man end up in trouble with the law,or there is drug and/or alcohol activity in these environments! They have an image to uphold so they want you to believe everything is peaches amd cream that lifestyle is a road for destruction.Nobody is going to church,praying nor have I seen or heard about them opening up a bible. No one is perfect and I never claim to be,but I can tell you one thing since I've had GOD in my life drama don't come my way,and that's because I eliminated those people,places and things out of my atmosphere and added GOD to and in everything I do. If you feel you are struggling and nothing seems to be going right...I have 1 option for you TRY JESUS. Add prayer to your life eliminate gossip, less time with friends & boyfriends add some bible reading & me time, and less social time in clubs & bars and more time in church and WATCH him show up and show out in your life (once you start going to church you won't even have the desire to party like before) I'm a witness life ain't the best but it's way better than before wayyyyyy better. You have nothing to lose I promise you it's a breath of fresh air
By Keeper "Iesha Bryant"
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